If you've searched "seating chart maker" and landed on American blogs talking about escort cards and sweetheart tables, none of it quite maps onto a UK wedding. British receptions use different terms, different table sizes, and a top table convention that trips up couples who've watched too many US wedding shows. Here's the UK version, table plan maker included.
Table plan, not seating chart
In the UK, "table plan" is the standard term; "seating chart" reads as slightly American, though search engines and most tools treat them as interchangeable. The practical difference that matters: UK weddings commonly split guests into a day guest list and an evening guest list, and your table plan usually only needs to cover day guests — the ones staying for the wedding breakfast (the meal after the ceremony, not literally breakfast). Evening guests arriving later typically don't get assigned tables; they mingle, and only need directions to the bar.
This changes your guest-count math. A wedding with 100 day guests and 150 total (day plus evening) only needs a table plan for the 100 — worth clarifying with your venue coordinator early, since "how many guests" gets asked without always specifying which list.
The top table: convention and modern variants
The traditional UK top table seats, left to right facing the room: chief bridesmaid, groom's father, bride's mother, groom, bride, bride's father, groom's mother, best man — a long rectangular table, guests facing it. It's the most rigid piece of UK wedding etiquette still in common use, though most couples now adapt it rather than use it exactly.
Common variants, roughly in order of how often I see them:
- Sweetheart table, parents at their own tables nearby — the couple sits alone or with the wedding party, and both sets of parents get equivalent-status tables rather than sharing the long top table. This sidesteps most divorced-parent and stepparent seating problems the rigid format creates.
- Shortened top table — just the couple and their two witnesses/best people, with parents seated separately. Increasingly common where parents are divorced or remarried.
- Full traditional top table — still standard at more formal or family-traditional weddings.
UK etiquette is more forgiving than it looks from outside — the "correct" format has been optional in practice for at least a decade, and most venues and toastmasters have seen every variant.
5ft 6in rounds: the UK-standard table size
Most UK marquee and hotel suppliers hire round tables in a small set of sizes, and the one that dominates wedding breakfasts is the 5ft 6in round (roughly 168cm), seating 10–12 guests comfortably with a centrepiece — the rough equivalent of a US "72-inch round," just quoted the way UK hire companies actually quote it.
Other common hire sizes: 5ft round (152cm) seats 8–10, used when venues need to fit more tables into a tighter room; 6ft round seats 12, less common but available for larger parties wanting fewer, bigger tables; 6ft trestle (rectangular) seats 8, standard for a top table or long banqueting-style rows. Always confirm the exact figure with your specific venue — "5ft 6in seats 12" is a common default, but some venues quote 10 for more centrepiece room, and that two-guest difference changes your total table count once you're past 100 guests.
How many tables you need
Work backwards from your day guest count and table size: 80 day guests at 10 per table is 8 tables (7 at a squeeze of 12); 120 day guests is 10–12 tables depending on which capacity you use — that page uses the nearest US-equivalent round size, but the table-count math holds either way. Round up rather than down when your per-table number is a guideline — an extra half-empty table is a far smaller problem on the day than adding a 13th chair to a table built for 10. Most UK venues cap total tables based on room size and fire regulations rather than guest count, so check the venue's actual maximum before committing to a table size — a room that fits ten 5ft 6in rounds might only fit eight of the larger 6ft ones.
Free UK table plan tools
You don't need to start from a blank spreadsheet:
- Your venue's own template — many UK venues supply a printable room-diagram PDF sized to their actual floor plan; ask before building your own, since it'll save you from a layout that doesn't match the room.
- Browser-based seating planners (Seatwise included) that let you drag guests into 5ft 6in-equivalent round tables, apply keep-together/keep-apart rules for divorced-parent or feuding-cousin situations, and print a plan sized for A1 or A2 display at the entrance — see our find your seat sign guide for exact sizing before you send anything to print.
- Spreadsheet plus printed floor plan, the manual fallback — fine under about 60 guests, error-prone past that, because cross-checking every "sits with" and "doesn't sit with" rule by eye is where mistakes creep in.
FAQ
Do evening-only guests need a table plan? Generally no — they usually arrive after the meal and mingle rather than sit at assigned tables. Check with your venue, since some smaller weddings combine day and evening guests onto one seated plan if the evening includes food.
What's the difference between a table plan and a seating chart? Nothing functional — "table plan" is the UK term, "seating chart" the US one. Both mean the document telling guests which table they're at.
Is the traditional top table order still expected? Not as a hard rule. It's still used at more formal weddings, but sweetheart tables and shortened top tables are common enough now that no guest will bat an eye at either choice.
How many guests fit at a 5ft 6in round with a large centrepiece? Drop to 10 rather than 12 — florists and venue coordinators will usually flag this, but ask before finalizing seat counts.
Building your table plan
Once you know your day-guest count, table size, and top-table format, the actual assignment work is the tedious part — 100+ names, keep-together and keep-apart rules, reshuffling every time someone RSVPs late. Seatwise is free for exactly this: build your room with 5ft 6in-equivalent rounds or trestle tables, paste your guest list, set your rules, and let it auto-seat everyone while you handle the top table by hand. Export costs a one-time $12 (roughly £9–10) per event when you're ready for a printable table plan and per-table lists — no subscription, and nothing about your guest list leaves your browser in the meantime.